Quiz: Who Do You Want to Smooch Under the Mistletoe?

Curious to find out who (and what) your ideal type is? Take this quiz developed by self-help dating author Brianna McCabe:


1. What’s your perfect way to spend a winter afternoon?

A) Browsing a museum or bookshop

B) Snowboarding or skiing

C) Curled up by the fire with candles, music, and hot cocoa

D) Going for a spontaneous road trip

E) Crafting a DIY project or exploring an art gallery


2. Your ideal first date is _______.

A) Chatting at a coffee shop

B) Going to a sporting event

C) A candlelit dinner

D) Rock climbing or go-karting

E) A jazz club


3. Three words to describe your next partner's personality are _____.

A) Thoughtful, deep, and witty

B) Energetic, motivated, and disciplined

C) Warm, affectionate, and thoughtful

D) Bold, daring, and fun-loving

E) Creative, expressive, and mysterious


4. What would a partner likely gift you for the holidays?

A) A book about a new hobby that you’ve taken interest in

B) New running shoes

C) A memento to remind you of an experience you've shared or a handwritten letter/poem

D) Airplane tickets

E) A handmade item


5. What’s the best holiday song to get you in the mood?

A) Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas

B) Rudolph the Rednosed Reindeer

C) I'll Be Home for Christmas

D) Jingle Bell Rock

E) Do They Know It's Christmas?


6. Which holiday tradition excites you the most?

A) Annual board game night with friends

B) Going ice skating

C) Decorating the tree

D) Midnight tubing or sledding

E) Making handmade decorations

If you answered mostly a’s…

The intellect.

If you got mostly A’s, the intellect is who you’d love to snuggle up with under the mistletoe. This person’s curiosity, knowledge, and thirst for learning make them endlessly interesting, and they’ll always have a fresh perspective or fascinating tidbit to share. Conversations with them are never shallow; they’ll challenge your mind and inspire you to see the world differently.

If you answered mostly b’s…

The athlete.

If you picked mostly B’s, the athlete is your ideal mistletoe match. With their high-energy, they’ll bring a zest for life that’s both motivating and infectious. This partner is not just focused on physical fitness—they value discipline, setting goals, and encouraging you to reach your full potential.

If you answered mostly c’s…

The romantic.

With mostly C’s, you’re looking for the classic romantic to meet you under the mistletoe. This partner values intimacy, closeness, and making you feel like the most special person in the world. They’ll light candles, leave thoughtful notes, and find unique ways to show you how much they care. With the romantic, you’ll feel seen, understood, and truly appreciated.

If you answered mostly d’s…

The adventurer.

If D’s were your top choice, the adventurer is the one you’ll be seeking. Life with this person is an exciting journey filled with new places, spontaneous decisions, and endless fun. They’re fearless and bold, always looking for the next experience to conquer, and they’re keen to bring you along for the ride. The adventurer will encourage you to break out of your comfort zone.

If you answered mostly e’s…

The artist.

With mostly E’s, you’re drawn to the artist—a partner who values creativity, expression, and seeing beauty in the small details of life. This person is all about connecting on a deeper level, appreciating uniqueness, and celebrating what makes you, you. The artist brings depth, passion, and inspiration to every relationship, creating a world full of wonder and meaning that you’ll love getting lost in.