Everyone, everywhere is talking about red flags.

But rarely, though, do they go deeper.

This is a public service announcement to not only stop ignoring the signs, but to understand the why behind our behaviors in finding them attractive.

And my book does just that.

  • Readers who have struggled with self-esteem will empathize with McCabe, applaud her honesty, humor, and self-reflections, and appreciate her sharing coping strategies and a healthy path forward.

    BookLife/Publisher’s Weekly

  • This should be required reading for anyone entering college.

    Ilana Dunn

    Host of Seeing Other People, a top New York Times dating podcast

  • This book is like a coming-of-age [dating] Bible.

    Elina Tarkazikis

    Co-host of Book, Please! Podcast and Journalist at Scripps News

  • The power in this book lies in the fact that a professional and academic figure chose to share such volatile material.

    Lindsey Jones

    Rutgers University Library

The Red Flags I’ve (Repeatedly) Ignored: Love, Lust + Lessons is currently available in hardcover, paperback, and ebook formats*

The above link is to purchase a personally autographed copy of the self-help dating book from Brianna herself, which also includes added book-related items, such as a custom red flag bookmark. Her book is also available at most stores where books are sold, including Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and Walmart. 

*Audiobook coming soon